I just completed my fist build... well I say completed. It's alive & just needs finishing!

Anyhow. It makes lots of noise. Nice and clean. But I'm having trouble setting it up.
I have this head unit. http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B006B1 ... 04_s00_i00 and was hoping to get away with using the internal Low Pass Filter. But Noooooo, it sounds terrible.
I'm have a choice of 55Hz, 85Hz, 120Hz. Not sure of the shape of the cut off. 55Hz sounds nicest but it still sounds very forced.
I fed the sub a frequency sweep from 10Hz to 150Hz over about 20 seconds just to see how it would sound. I haven't measured it but it did sound very up and down with definite loud spots!
At the moment I have it setup in my office until I can coax a decently balanced sound out of it.
Any suggestions for an automotive crossover / equalizer / amp package?