Don't get to frustrated.
There's a bunch of us banging stuff at you and your just trying to get your head around stuff.
We're just trying to help, based on experience. Please forgive us.
manual:
Go to
https://www.behringer.com/downloads.html scroll down to your model number in a drop down box somewhere in the middle, click it and all documents related to that model number will come up. You want the manual, not the quick start guide, which you have already.
That's where it says (under the sub out heading) whatever you do to will also affect sub out. So, eg if you set low cut/high pass to 400Hz, then you get no sub output.
Why is it there like that? Well, for example let's say you were using the unit after crossover system outputs. You might have a mid/high send for example, on one unit, where you want to make sure that the mid/highs aren't trying to reproduce what should be in the subs.
So use the low cut.
But you're situation is different. You don't have a crossover, you're trying to use the controls on the unit to try and make it act like a crossover, but it's not, or, if it is, it has limitations.
One way you could get more sub control if you use a mixer, is to feed the subs via an auxilliary feed.
I'm wondering if we should just give you some time to try all the stuff suggested so far. You get back to us when you're ready, tell us your findings, we move on from there...
Built:
DR 250: x 2 melded array, 2x CD horn, March 2012 plans.
T39's: 4 x 20" KL3010LF , 2 x 28" 3012LF.
WH8: x 6 with melded array wired series/parallel.
Bunter's Audio and Lighting "like"s would be most appreciated...