Bill Fitzmaurice wrote:I'd rather take care of her rack.

If she's the woman I think she is, she's the poster-child for people that say (and I agree) that women should lift weights and as long as they're not taking steroids they won't get bulky. I believe she's one of the current record-holders in the squat. She'd snap you like a twig. Doesn't sound like a bad way to go though.
One thing that has helped me in recently (5 strains and 3 crushed discs is what it took to figure this out) is to determine where the heavy end of something is. This is especially handy for old CRT TVs and monitors and applies to amp racks as well.
Find the heavy end - for CRTs its the end you watch. For amp racks, it's probably the fronts since most of the time a manufacturer is going to make them front-heavy so a customer has the option of using a single mounting point. That's probably where the transformer sits.
Pick up the item with the heavy end pulled in tight to your abdomen. Having the weight close to your body puts less leverage on your back and makes it easier to balance since the majority of the weight will be closer to your center of mass.
My opinion - since I'm no doctor, not even on TV - is that it's easier to carry two heavy things (one in each hand) than it is to carry one in two hands in front of my body or in one hand. Balance the load, right?
In the end, we replaced some heavy-ass Behringer EP amps with a single Peavy IPR. I looked our rig over and it dawned on me that we really only needed one amp anyway. The two mains are on one channel and the four 16-ohm hot spot monitors are on the other. We went from a 20-space rack that weighed probably 125 pounds to a 4-space that can't weigh more than 30.